Mother's Day 2007
Mother's Day 2007 Grandma Ruby & Susan at the Iris Farm
Thanksgiving 2007
My Family visit Grandma Ruby - Thanksgiving 2007
Four Generations - November 2007
Valentine's Day 2008
Christmas 2008
Susan & Gram July 1, 2009
Loretta & Ruby - July 1, 2009
Oh, my, check the duplicates!
Loretta, Keith, Gene, Barb, Melvin & Ruby - July 27, 2009
Loretta, Gene, Dad & Mom - July 27, 2009
Mom & Gene - Celebrating #85!
Special Friends - Jeannie & Marilyn
came to sing Happy Birthday!
Today was my Mother's 85th Birthday and I shall ever be grateful for the bonus days we have with her. We are now in our eighth, almost ninth year of the battle with the dreaded disease called Alzheimer's. In February, 2007, she broke a bone in her knee and we had to move her to Countryside Nursing Home for rehabilitation of the broken bone. It was then that my brother and I realized just what a toll her care was taking on our Dad and made the decision that the care at the facility was the best for not only Mother but Dad as well. She is no longer able to feed herself, walk, or do even the most minute details of personal care. Often, she does not know us - but we know her and continue to care for her daily, watching for those jewels of time when we see a spark of recognition or have her utter a few words that actually pertain to the happenings of the moment. What a joy recently when the following happened early one Monday morning - I was going to take her outside for a walk in the beautiful flowers and when we got to the door, I leaned down by her wheelchair and saw that it had started to rain. When I muttered to myself, "Oh, bummer, it's raining." She looked to the side and said, "I have an umbrella". My tears fell like the lovely morning rain - - - That was all she said that morning, but that was enough. . .
I share some pictures taken in the months that she has been at the nursing home, ending with Birthday Pictures taken today, July 27, 2009.